I wish I could tell my wife I want to be a cuckold. I just don’t know how!

Have you ever asked yourself this very question? How do I tell my wife I want to be her cuck?

If you have (and you wouldn’t be reading this article if you haven’t would you?) here are some of the things you need to think about.

Now there is a caveat to what you are about to read… There always is…

Is your wife sexual enough. In other words, does she like, love and need sex frequently? If the answer to this is no, then you my friend are out of luck. Some people are just not too bothered about sex. Maybe you are one of the unlucky ones to be married to one of them, and I say this with no disrespect.

But if the answer is YES, then you’re in luck, but remember, cuckolding desires can lead to the very best, but also to the very worst. It is often very exciting to think about being the cuckold in a married relationship, rather then to actually live it, and becoming a cuck and allowing yourself the exquisitely sensual humiliation of having to watch your beloved wife being properly fucked by a man with a larger cock, better technique, in other words, a better man than yourself can be very difficult.

You have been warned, and it may be that cuckold phone sex is for you the only way you can experience this lifestyle.

Ask us How You Can Tell Your Wife You Want To Be a Cuckold

Like most things in a relationship, communication is the key to harmony and if you want to open the door to real sexual harmony, then you and your wife need to be open with another desires.  This communication doesn’t happen overnight, so I would very much NOT advice you to go to your wife this evening and tell her something like:

Honey, I know I am not good enough for you in bed, and I think that if you brought another man is for you to be fucked properly, I would be ok with it! And I would love to watch the two of you have sex in front of me and tell me how much better it feels for you now that you are doing it with a real man.

Even though this is exactly what you want, you cannot just come out with this and hope that your wife will either not slap you on the face, or call a therapist (or her mom)!  Above realize that your desires to explore your cuckolding fantasies are based on the fact that you enjoy the role of the subservient male (go on, say it loud…  I am a subservient male…  Feels good doesn’t it?).  There may be many reasons for you to feel this way.  The most common reason is that you are an average man with at best an average size cock, and more likely a small (tiny) dick! And as such you wish your dick was bigger and if this is never going to happen to you, the next best thing to give your wife what she deserve is to let her have sex with men who do have what you don’t have:  A large dick.

One the most erotic means to turn a partner on is to talk during sex.  I know!  I am the business of talking dirty by phone!  🙂

So make a habit of talking to your wife during sex.  Ask her questions like:

  • Does she like your hands on her body?
  • Is your tongue hitting the right spot when you give her oral sex
  • Can she feel your dick when you fuck her?  Like really feel it?  Say something like:
    • I wish my cock was little bigger!
    • How would you like me to have a cock that was not so small?
    • Do you wish you could feel a real dick inside of you?

Observe her reactions.  In nearly all cases, a woman will instinctively try to protect the ego of their husband by telling them things like

Your dick is fine.  It’s perfect for me.  It’s not the size any way, it’s the way you use it, and you use it so well!

But a sexual woman will often always come to the same conclusion, if there was a way to have a large dick pounding her like she needs to be and not feel bad about it, or hurt her husband, then yes, she would.  Love.  To have sex.  With a very hung man.

You have to make accept that you are not that man, but you are ok with her finding one, as long as you are included.

Over time, as you become more vocal about your needs to watch you wife being properly fucked by a better man than you, and as she becomes more assertive, more dominant, more accepting of the fact that you little dick is indeed too small for her and she needs a real man, here are things you will need to talk about:

  • Cuckolding… What’s in it for the both of you?
    • How will you feel once you have become a cuckold
    • How will she feel knowing that being a cuckold will alter her view of you as a man
  • How would this lifestyle enhance your marriage.  (Remember, the Cuckold lifestyle is not for everybody!)
  • Talk about limitations, red lines that must not be crossed once you enter that lifestyle
  • Talk about expectations.  Her role, your role, if you as the cuck
    • will be only allowed to watch,
    • participate,
    • required to perform bisexual acts with the other man such as sucking his dick, or let him fuck you in the ass
  • Tell her why the thought of your wife having sex with another man is so sexually enticing for you
  • Talk to each other about your fantasies

Here are some important factors to remember about cuckolding.

Cuckolding involves humiliation, verbal or physical and you will be the only suffering the humiliation. It sounds exciting when you think about, but in real life, being told by the woman you love whilst she fucks another man that your dick is no use to her, that she doesn’t think she will even let you fuck again may be painful.  But as if that isn’t going to be hard enough, hearing these things for the other man can be even more difficult to cope with.  The humiliation can be sensual or hardcore, but whatever it is, be prepared for it, and make sure you can handle the after the event moments.

Are your cuckold fantasies temporary?  In other words, is it just a phase?  Be very sure about this, because once the cuckolding has started, your relationship with your wife will be for ever altered.  Do you really need to change lifestyle in order to make your sex life more exciting.  Perhaps you want to limit your cuckolding fantasies to exactly that:  Fantasies that you and your wife like to talk about.

A Cuckolding lifestyle can be a uniquely satisfying experience for both husband (cuckold or cuck) or the wife (cuckoldress, cheating wife).  And you wife will probably need to get her mind wrapped around this idea before (if) she accepts to make a cuckold out of you.

And once she does…  For better or for worse….  Things will never the same for either of you!

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