Live Phone Sex: Is It Infidelity?

It’s very likely that if you use a smartphone, then you probably have already been subjected to material of an adult nature! Of course, if you happen to be like most of the males (and women, me included) I know, you might have (at the very least) been curious about the whole adult phone phenomenon. .

What with one on one phone sex conversations, to private shows, to who knows what, the world is all of a sudden a much smaller place when it comes to connect with people.

For many singles, adult phone is probably the easiest way to break the monotony of the single life. However what if you were in a relationship and you found out that your partner did more than think about it! He actually used it for himself. What would you do? Would you excuse him like my friend just did (she found out that her beloved husband was getting in touch with a sexual phone line for some extra “pleasure”, and not only that he used her card “yet” showed “signs of wisdom” in electing to use her very own cash on Cheap Phone Sex deals!), or would his actions be a real problem for you? Here is what my friend told me when I asked if she was angry with her husband!

All things considered, you and I go out on ladies nights ever week, and you know what we talk about sometimes and how sexually charged our gossips can get, so what’s the difference?”

Her answer really surprised me. It was totally unexpected and out of character. I mean who would have thought that my friend, my dear loyal friend who was always the quietest during those nights out she had just referred to could be so understanding, so broad minded. How she had taken all of this was a revelation. She actually didn’t mind and saw that he had been talking to invisible women, and such they had no immediate effect on her relationship. “These women are illusions, I know it, and more importantly, he knows it too” she had said, and I couldn’t find any flaw in her reasoning.

“I have found my very own partner looking at adult movie many times” I recognized, “therefore I can understand where you’re coming from! I am not certain I would be able to be so kind with my very own husband. though..”

And just as I was going to develop my chain of thoughts further, my friend cut me off:

“I am telling you. I was furious because of the credit card issue so I let him have it for a while. But when that was done, I realized that was feeling left out, I mean if this man whom I had always enjoyed intimacy with was himself exploring fantasies by phone, shouldn’t I at least see what the bid deal was all about?!”

I was shocked! This was my gentle charming childhood close friend I was speaking to. The lady who had her first kiss a full year after I enjoyed mine… The woman who lost her virginity after she went to college when all of us had become “women” years before. And here she was informing that she and her hubby were thinking about virtual and erotic multi partners affairs. It was wild… Yet exciting.

“Don’t tell me that you did!” I asked her!

“Indeed I did” was her answer. “And I know what you are going to ask next… YES! It was really nice!”